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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Four Questions Answered About Encore Careers

Four Questions Answered About Encore Careers

If you’ve been thinking, “What’s next for me?”, you’re not alone. More and more people are exploring encore careers: meaningful work pursued in the second half of life that blends purpose, flexibility, and often a new sense of identity. If you’re curious but unsure where to begin, here are four common questions answered.

1. What Exactly Is an Encore Career?

An encore career is not just another job, it’s a shift. It’s work that feels more aligned with who you are now, not who you were earlier in your career. For some, that means turning a long-held interest into income. For others, it’s using their professional experience in a new way, such as consulting, mentoring, or working in a mission-driven organization. The key is that it feels purposeful and intentional.

Today, we’re seeing more women redefine what’s possible in midlife and beyond. Martha Stewart continued evolving her brand well beyond midlife, expanding into new platforms and audiences. Arianna Huffington launched Thrive Global at age 66, shifting her focus toward well-being and burnout prevention. And Reese Witherspoon transformed her career by creating new opportunities not just for herself, but for other women as well.

These are not stories about starting over, they are about building forward.

2. Do I Need to Start Over?

Absolutely not. One of the biggest misconceptions is that an encore career requires starting from scratch. In reality, your experience is your greatest asset. The goal is to translate your skills into new opportunities. Leadership, communication, problem-solving, and relationship-building are highly transferable. Instead of asking, “What can I do now?” try asking, “How can I use what I already know in a different way?”

3. How Do I Figure Out What I Want to Do Next?

Clarity comes from action, not overthinking. Start by reflecting on what energizes you. What problems do you enjoy solving? What environments bring out your best? Then begin small experiments, conversations, volunteer roles, short-term projects, or classes. These steps help you test ideas without making a major commitment. Momentum builds confidence, and confidence leads to clearer direction.

4. Is It Too Late to Make a Change?

This is the question that stops many people, and the answer is no. In fact, this stage of life often brings greater self-awareness, resilience, and perspective than ever before. Employers and clients value those qualities. More importantly, you deserve work that feels engaging and meaningful. An encore career isn’t about age, it’s about alignment.

Three Questions to Ask Yourself as You Explore Your Encore Career

As you begin thinking about what’s next, give yourself permission to be curious, without pressure to have all the answers. Start here:

1. What Do I Want More of in This Next Chapter?

More flexibility? More creativity? More connection? More impact? Let this guide your direction.

2. What Strengths and Experiences Do I Want to Carry Forward?

You’ve built a lifetime of skills. Which ones do you enjoy using most, and want to continue using in a new way?

3. What Have I Always Been Curious About, But Never Pursued?

 Sometimes your next path has been quietly waiting for you. This is your opportunity to explore it.

Think about the possibilities and the places you’ll go!

Final Thought

An encore career is less about reinvention and more about reconnection, to your strengths, your interests, and what matters most to you now. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You simply need to be willing to take the first step.

As a career coach, I’ve worked with many women who begin exploring their encore career while they are still working. You don’t need to wait until retirement to get the ball rolling. In fact, starting earlier gives you a longer runway to thoughtfully build, explore, and ultimately launch the next chapter you’re dreaming about.

Let’s Chat:

Are you already moving toward your encore career, or is there something you’ve been quietly wanting to explore? I’d love to hear what’s on your mind. Taking the first step begins with acknowledging that you’re ready to move forward and that simple shift can open the door to what comes next.

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Four Questions Answered About Encore Careers

Four Questions Answered About Encore Careers

If you’ve been thinking, “What’s next for me?”, you’re not alone. More and more people are exploring encore careers: meaningful work pursued in the second half of life that blends purpose, flexibility, and often a new sense of identity. If you’re curious but unsure where to begin, here are four common questions answered.

1. What Exactly Is an Encore Career?

An encore career is not just another job, it’s a shift. It’s work that feels more aligned with who you are now, not who you were earlier in your career. For some, that means turning a long-held interest into income. For others, it’s using their professional experience in a new way, such as consulting, mentoring, or working in a mission-driven organization. The key is that it feels purposeful and intentional.

Today, we’re seeing more women redefine what’s possible in midlife and beyond. Martha Stewart continued evolving her brand well beyond midlife, expanding into new platforms and audiences. Arianna Huffington launched Thrive Global at age 66, shifting her focus toward well-being and burnout prevention. And Reese Witherspoon transformed her career by creating new opportunities not just for herself, but for other women as well.

These are not stories about starting over, they are about building forward.

2. Do I Need to Start Over?

Absolutely not. One of the biggest misconceptions is that an encore career requires starting from scratch. In reality, your experience is your greatest asset. The goal is to translate your skills into new opportunities. Leadership, communication, problem-solving, and relationship-building are highly transferable. Instead of asking, “What can I do now?” try asking, “How can I use what I already know in a different way?”

3. How Do I Figure Out What I Want to Do Next?

Clarity comes from action, not overthinking. Start by reflecting on what energizes you. What problems do you enjoy solving? What environments bring out your best? Then begin small experiments, conversations, volunteer roles, short-term projects, or classes. These steps help you test ideas without making a major commitment. Momentum builds confidence, and confidence leads to clearer direction.

4. Is It Too Late to Make a Change?

This is the question that stops many people, and the answer is no. In fact, this stage of life often brings greater self-awareness, resilience, and perspective than ever before. Employers and clients value those qualities. More importantly, you deserve work that feels engaging and meaningful. An encore career isn’t about age, it’s about alignment.

Three Questions to Ask Yourself as You Explore Your Encore Career

As you begin thinking about what’s next, give yourself permission to be curious, without pressure to have all the answers. Start here:

1. What Do I Want More of in This Next Chapter?

More flexibility? More creativity? More connection? More impact? Let this guide your direction.

2. What Strengths and Experiences Do I Want to Carry Forward?

You’ve built a lifetime of skills. Which ones do you enjoy using most, and want to continue using in a new way?

3. What Have I Always Been Curious About, But Never Pursued?

 Sometimes your next path has been quietly waiting for you. This is your opportunity to explore it.

Think about the possibilities and the places you’ll go!

Final Thought

An encore career is less about reinvention and more about reconnection, to your strengths, your interests, and what matters most to you now. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You simply need to be willing to take the first step.

As a career coach, I’ve worked with many women who begin exploring their encore career while they are still working. You don’t need to wait until retirement to get the ball rolling. In fact, starting earlier gives you a longer runway to thoughtfully build, explore, and ultimately launch the next chapter you’re dreaming about.

Let’s Chat:

Are you already moving toward your encore career, or is there something you’ve been quietly wanting to explore? I’d love to hear what’s on your mind. Taking the first step begins with acknowledging that you’re ready to move forward and that simple shift can open the door to what comes next.

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Liz McGraw’s White and Blue Floral Crop Top and Pants

Liz McGraw’s White and Blue Floral Crop Top and Pants / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 3 Fashion

Liz McGraw is quickly becoming one of my fav fashionistas because she has a nice mix of expensive and affordable fashion. For example, tonight on #RHORI she wears this white and blue floral crop top and pant set that was at one point very affordable. Though it’s unfortunately no longer available to shop, we still have similar styles to it below that will have you looking like a total doll

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Liz McGraw's White and Blue Floral Crop Top and Pants

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Cynthia Bailey’s White Lace Belted Midi Dress

Cynthia Bailey’s White Lace Belted Midi Dress / Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 17 Episode 2 Fashion

Cynthia Bailey heads to Kelli Ferrell’s grand opening in a lovely white lace belted midi dress. I love this look, it’s perfect for special occasions. And if you want to exude grace in lace like Cynthia Style you can shop a similar in stock below.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Cynthia Bailey's White Lace Belted Midi Dress

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Angela Oakley’s Black Dress with White Flowers

Angela Oakley’s Black Dress with White Flowers / Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 17 Episode 2 Fashion

Angela Oakley is the queen of dresses and blesses us with a black dress with white flowers at Kelli Ferrell’s grand opening on tonight’s episode of #RHOA. So do not be late to the party and snag the last few remaining in stock.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Angela Oakley's Black Dress with White Flowers

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Sutton Stracke’s White Printed Button Down Shirt

Sutton Stracke’s White Printed Button Down Shirt / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 17 Fashion

I will always say everyone needs a classic button down shirt in their closet because they can be paired with a plethora of things for a plethora of occasions. Especially when they’re fun like the white printed one Sutton Stracke was seen wearing on #RHOBH last night. And since we found some solid similar styles to it below means you won’t want to miss out on shopping them.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Sutton Stracke's White Printed Button Down Shirt

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Erika Girardi’s White and Blue Striped Cable Knit Polo

Erika Girardi’s White and Blue Striped Cable Knit Polo / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 17 Fashion

I was a little bummed that so many people skipped out on Dorit Kemsley’s book cover reveal party, because I’m sure we missed out on some fab ‘fits. But we did get to see some more casual ones like Erika Girardi’s white and blue striped cable knit polo. And considering this feels like the 100th post we’ve done on Erika wearing a polo something, means you know it’s good and you know you should shop something similar. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Erika Girardi's White and Blue Striped Cable Knit Polo

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