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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Paige DeSorbo’s Black Shield Sunglasses

Paige DeSorbo’s Black Shield Sunglasses / Summer House Instagram Fashion March 2026

Paige DeSorbo seems to have a lot of announcements rolling out lately, from podcast award winner, Daphne drops, and now a NETFLIX SHOW?! As a habitual Paige-stan I am so happy for the era she’s in. Buuuut she isn’t the only one with an announcement, because we’re announcing where you can shop her super chic black shield sunglasses seen on her IG stories below. 😎

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Paige DeSorbo’s Black Shield Sunglasses

Paige DeSorbo’s Black Shield Sunglasses / Summer House Instagram Fashion March 2026

Paige DeSorbo seems to have a lot of announcements rolling out lately, from podcast award winner, Daphne drops, and now a NETFLIX SHOW?! As a habitual Paige-stan I am so happy for the era she’s in. Buuuut she isn’t the only one with an announcement, because we’re announcing where you can shop her super chic black shield sunglasses seen on her IG stories below. 😎

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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The Days When the Mind Follows the Body

The Days When the Mind Follows the Body

There are days when the body quietly reminds you who is in charge. It doesn’t ask permission. It doesn’t check your plans. It simply slows you down, and with it, something else slows down too – your mind.

Last night, I didn’t feel well. Nothing serious, just enough to take the edge off everything. But what caught me off guard wasn’t the physical discomfort. It was the mental fog that came with it.

Something Was Off

I’ve spent a lot of time paying attention to how music affects the mind – how certain sounds can settle you, even open a small door to clarity. I’ve come to trust that. There’s a certain confidence that comes from knowing that when things feel scattered, there are ways to gently guide yourself back.

But not yesterday. Yesterday, none of it seemed to reach me, and that stayed with me.

The music was still there. The same songs, the same tones, the same intention behind listening. But the response was different. Or maybe it wasn’t the response that changed, but the part of me that receives it.

Because my first instinct was to push against it. To wonder what was wrong. To question why I couldn’t think clearly, why I didn’t feel like myself. There’s a subtle expectation we carry, often without realizing it, that we should be able to return to ourselves at will. That clarity is something we can choose, if we just try hard enough.

The Body Has Its Own Rhythm

It took a little while before another thought came in, quieter this time. Maybe nothing was wrong. Maybe this was simply what it feels like when the body needs something different.

There’s something humbling about that realization. The body has its own timing, its own rhythm, and it doesn’t always align with what we would prefer. It asks for rest in a way that isn’t negotiable. And when it does, the mind follows.

Not in a dramatic way. Just a soft dimming. A step back from sharpness. From focus. From the need to engage with everything the way we usually do.

When the body is tired or unwell, the mind doesn’t operate the same way. It isn’t as sharp. It isn’t as willing. And yet, we often meet that moment with resistance. We expect ourselves to carry on as if nothing has changed.

But something has.

And perhaps there’s a kind of understanding in recognizing that – not as a setback, but as part of being human. To step back, just a little. To let the day be what it is.

Letting the Body Lead the Way

There’s a difference between giving up and giving space. One comes from frustration. The other comes from recognition. From noticing what is actually happening instead of what we wish were happening.

To notice that clarity, energy, even creativity, don’t disappear. They pause. And like most things that pause, they return. Not because we force them to, but because we give them the space.

I’ve begun to wonder how many of those moments in life we misinterpret. How often we think something is wrong, when in fact something is simply asking for time.

Time to settle. Time to recalibrate. Time to let the body lead for a while instead of insisting the mind take control.

There’s a quiet kind of forgiveness in that. Not something spoken, just something allowed. A recognition that we don’t have to be at our best every day to still be ourselves.

We don’t lose who we are in those moments. We just experience a different version of it. One that is slower, quieter, perhaps less certain – but no less real.

Sometimes, it’s enough to trust that we’ll find our way back – in our own time.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you been unwell lately? Was it your body being in distress? How did your mind handle it?

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Dara Levitan’s Striped Top and Denim Mini Skirt

Dara Levitan’s Striped Top and Denim Mini Skirt / Summer House Season 10 Episode 8 Fashion

Dara Levitan headed to the Hamptons on last night’s episode of Summer House in a striped top and denim mini skirt. Both of these stylish pieces can be mixed and matched in multiple ways, so you never have to be in your head about what to wear this summer. Especially since this skirt is fully stocked and on sale for under $40.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Mia Calabrese’s Red Gingham Bikini

Mia Calabrese’s Red Gingham Bikini / Summer House Season 10 Episode 8 Fashion

Mia Calabrese helped set up Kyle Cook’s old people themed birthday party on last night’s episode of Summer House in a red gingham print bikini. This print is a perennial Summer House staple and we always love to see it. So you’re shopping for suits that are a sure thing, scroll below and snag something in this country chic print.

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Mia Calabrese's Red Gingham Bikini

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From Audience to Actor: Joining a Community Theater Group After 60

From Audience to Actor Joining a Community Theater Group After 60

Do you love theatrical plays? Are you the one who sees several Broadway shows when you go to New York City? Have you ever watched a play and said to yourself, “I would love to do that!” Well, guess what…you can! Joining a community theater group after 60 can be very rewarding and even give you a renewed purpose in life. Imagine performing with like-minded people and entertaining an audience. 

But how do you get started joining a community theater group after 60? Keep reading, and you’ll discover a few ways that you can find theater groups in your community and how you can get started. 

Why Try Community Theater After 60

Joining a theater group after 60 can give you a renewed sense of motivation and purpose. Often, people who retire without an activity plan find that they are bored and lonely. 

Joining a theater group after 60 can boost your confidence, give you opportunities to create new friendships, and even be beneficial to your health. Memorizing dialogue can help with long-term memory, and being active on stage keeps your body moving. You’ll get to meet and play along with people of all ages and backgrounds. You can learn from others and even teach newcomers some tips and tricks. 

No Experience? No Problem

Most community theater groups don’t require extensive training or experience. They mostly look for people with a passion for theater and dedication to commit to a full season of a production. 

You may want to start with a behind-the-scenes role. For example, you can learn a lot by being a part of the costumes team. You can use the time to observe the actors and develop your skills. 

Tip: YouTube is full of tutorials, including stage acting tips and tricks. Watching a few video tutorials can help give you the confidence you need to go to your first audition. It can even help you understand your role better and how to perform the best you can when on stage.

How to Find a Community Theater Group

Finding a community theater group in your area has never been easier. With access to social media platforms, you are sure to find what you are looking for. 

Search for “Community Theater Group” in your area on Facebook, TikTok, and other social media. Also, you can use Google to do some research about the theater groups near your location. 

Of course, the old pin a flyer on a billboard is still a thing, so make sure to look for boards at your local supermarkets or other heavily visited places. 

Audition Tips

Auditioning for a theater production can feel intimidating. But if you prepare well and know what to expect, you won’t feel so overwhelmed. Some theater groups will have specific audition protocols, while others will be freeform and let you perform what you want. Make sure you know what they expect from you during your audition.

The best audition tip is practice, practice, practice. The more comfortable you are with your audition performance, the better chance you have of successfully delivering a good performance that will get you into the play. 

Again, YouTube tutorials from seasoned actors are great for audition tips. 

Beyond Acting

As we mentioned above, you don’t have to hit the stage from the get-go. There are so many other positions in the team that are equally important to the success of the play. 

Here are some positions to look into:

  • Stage management
  • Sound management
  • Set design
  • Costume design
  • Lighting
  • Makeup
  • Ticket sales

Ask the theater group director what each role entails and how your skills can be put to good use. 

From Drama to Comedy

Do you have a preference for playing serious roles, or do you enjoy the sound of laughter erupting in the theater? Inquire about the upcoming performances and try to find a theater group that suits your interests. 

Do You Have What It Takes to Join a Theater Group?

Absolutely! If you have passion and determination, you have what it takes. Not all actors were born actors. It’s a skill that is learned with time and that becomes easier with practice. Make sure to give it your all, be open to suggestions, and be willing to take direction positively.

Start Your Own Community Theater Group

If you can’t find a theater group in your community, why not start your own?  Ask your group of friends who would be interested in creating a theater group, and you may be surprised at how many friends or acquaintances you have who have been secretly harboring the dream of acting in a play. 

Start by determining what type of production you want to perform and look at possibilities for venues. It doesn’t have to be a real theater with thousands of seats. You can put on a play in any place that can accommodate a set and some seats. 

Don’t be shy, get out there and put on your best performance!

Read more: 5 Reasons Taking an Acting Class in Retirement Might Be Good for You.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you enjoy acting? Have you ever been a part of a theater group? Are you thinking of joining one? What motivates you to want to perform on stage? We would love to hear your stories. Tell us about it in the comments below. 

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Washed Navy Blue Sweatsuit

Lindsay Hubbard’s Washed Navy Blue Sweatsuit / Summer House Season 10 Episode 8 Fashion

Lindsay Hubbard wore a washed navy blue sweatsuit on last night’s episode of Summer House that she mentioned was gifted from Amanda Batula. Come to find out it’s a Boys Lie x Lover Boy collab. And though the sweatsuit is almost sold out, Lindsay gifted us with some in stock inspo in the form of the new affordable white v neck tee she wore with it. So while the Summer House ladies can’t get enough of letting us know boys lie, we know their stellar casual style finds don’t.

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Lindsay Hubbard's Washed Navy Blue Sweatsuit
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