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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Ciara Miller’s White Waffle Henley Top

Ciara Miller’s White Waffle Henley Top / Summer House Season 10 Episode 8 Fashion

We get a lot of scenes of Ciara Miller chilling in bed with Mia Calabrese this season of Summer House, and I’m all for it. They hold space for chic finds like Ciara Miller’s white waffle henley top. I love that it’s cute and cozy enough to wear anywhere around the house or out and about, which is why we snagged similar styles for you to get close with and wear with practically anything in your wardrobe.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Ciara Miller’s White Waffle Henley Top

Ciara Miller’s White Waffle Henley Top / Summer House Season 10 Episode 8 Fashion

We get a lot of scenes of Ciara Miller chilling in bed with Mia Calabrese this season of Summer House, and I’m all for it. They hold space for chic finds like Ciara Miller’s white waffle henley top. I love that it’s cute and cozy enough to wear anywhere around the house or out and about, which is why we snagged similar styles for you to get close with and wear with practically anything in your wardrobe.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Life in Three Dimensions: A Book About Seeking a Good Life

Life in Three Dimensions A Book About Seeking a Good Life

If you step into your ideal self at age 95 and look back, what do you want to see? Is it a life of happiness? Of meaning? Certainly, you want to feel satisfied with the years you have lived and are living. I faced having to figure out how to be satisfied with my life when I turned 70; I had left full-time work and felt lost. There are many reasons for feeling unsettled, usually related to some kind of shift in our life role. I have clients much younger than 70 who feel dissatisfaction and thus find themselves searching.

Traditionally, happiness and meaning are the main ingredients to living what is called a “good life.” I want to sense that I’ve made a difference; that falls under “meaning.” Then, I’m pretty happy too! So, both happiness and meaning matter to me. What about you?

Recently, I ran across a new book and learned about yet another life dimension to consider when defining a good life for oneself. This book, Life in Three Dimensions, addresses the history of society’s exploration of what makes for a good life. The author has researched yet another dimension of a good life, psychological richness. The book caused me to take a closer look at what I assumed about what those of us over 60 are looking for in our phase of life.

Let’s explore what I learned. Then, I am curious if and how this expanded view of a good life fits your experiences and idea of living what you would consider a good life.

Good Life in a Nutshell

Most of us seek to be happy. In fact, happiness as the objective of a good life led to the field of positive psychology. We want to have a sense of well-being, that we are virtuous, engaged in life, and feel satisfaction. Eventually, positive psychology spilled over into our expectations of life as we age. We know that nurturing a positive view of aging can add years to life.

A branch spun off from the positive aging movement asserting that living a life with meaning leads to a good life. The focus on meaning is discussed in terms of autonomy, purpose, accepting oneself, and having positive engagement with life. For us over 60, this is more than achieving goals, it is finally blossoming into living the life that calls us from the heart.

What I had never considered is that happiness and meaning usually correlate, but not necessarily. It is possible to be happy and yet lack in meaning, and vice versa. Is that what happens when “life is easy,” yet we have no real structure to our days? I see meaning as personally defined; meaning rests upon whether you feel there is a point to your life. I am curious how you see happiness and meaning contributing to your life.

Now, let’s explore the new perspective offered by author Shigehiro Oishi, Ph.D.

A Third Way

“Psychological richness” is a third dimension to living a good life. For us, the importance of this dimension relates to living a life with no regrets. So, as your 95-year-old self looks back, she is pleased with what she has allowed herself to experience. It has often been said that we regret what we haven’t done much more than what we have. That is the point of psychological richness.

A psychologically rich life is one “rich in experiences.” The key question for us regards whether we are open to new experiences. Then, determine if the experience is new to you, shifts your perspective, or allows you to learn something. Can you feel the butterflies?

The idea of richness covers a vast array of possible experiences. For some adventurers, a psychologically rich experience in life may be moving to a foreign country. For others, it could be learning something new. Even reading books and theater can be such experiences. The point is that the experience leads to some kind of shift or growth in who we are or how we see the world.

What I notice about this dimension is that it can adapt to our life situation. At 65, perhaps visiting a culture very different from your own is attractive. Then, at 85, perhaps exploring new types of theater is compelling.

Have you watched a film or read a book that has caused you to shift your perspective or expand your thinking? Then, you have experienced psychological richness.           

Full Circle

Let’s circle back to the question of feeling satisfied with life. When I went through my age 70 confusion, I was looking for more than just being happy. Of course, that was a part of it. I was looking for meaning. The first place I looked was to do more of what I had done for years – teach. Doesn’t that have meaning? Yes. That didn’t ease the dissatisfaction at all.

Psychological richness explains what I was looking for and eventually found. What was wanting to emerge in my life required I explore new ideas and learn a new way to participate in the world. I had to learn to say “Yes” to opportunities and not assume that I was already a finished being with nothing new ahead. It felt both exciting and unsettling to not know exactly where I was headed for a while.

Thus, reading Life in Three Dimensions was psychologically rich for me. I now have a fresh perspective on one possible path out of dissatisfaction toward a “good life.”

Let’s Have a Conversation:

I’d love to learn about your journey into a “good” life. Are you like me and had to find your way through feeling lost? Are you still on your journey? What feels most important to your life satisfaction? Does psychological richness play a role? How?

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POEM: Living with Courage: The Flip Side of Fear

POEM Living with Courage The Flip Side of Fear

When I’m scared of the dark I whistle or sing,
Which fixates and pixates each scary thing.
The scaries are lonely, but not when I’m there.
They know that my music means that I care.

I’m scared to go flying up high in a plane,
I’ve learned a neat trick that alleviates strain.
I plan farther ahead and ride on a train.

If I see some blood! Here’s a remedy quaint.
I put my head down ‘tween my knees and don’t faint.

When I go to the beach, I feel like a geek
(‘cause I don’t have a Swartz’negger’s psyseek),
I don’t go in swimming nor go for a prowl,
I lay on the sand beneath my beach towel.

While others might suffer from shedding their clothes,
I’ve never been sunburned (except for my nose.)

When I get crank phone calls, I hang up “toot sweet,”
And never go out without shoes on my feet.

When loud noises are fright’ning, I cover both ears.
And for fears of old age I subtract twenty years.

When movies are scary I simply don’t look,
Through “The Wolfman Ate Clevelend” I read a good book.
(If you keep your flashlight stuffed up your sleeve,
there’s a good chance the ushers won’t ask you to leave.)

I turn off TV when there’s news on my set.
About the reports of diseases we’ll get.

But when I visit Disneyland, PEOPLE WATCH OUT!

I ride the fast coasters! I scream and I shout!
I laugh at the pirates, you won’t hear me grouse!
I’m the first one in line for that old Haunted House!

I ride little things that twirl me around!
And cars hung on wires ninety feet off the ground!
I stay forty hours ‘til they lock up the gate,
And I’m back the next day at dawn. How GRR-REAT!

I wonder if perhaps some fears I could shed,
Knowing that like Disney, they’re just in my head?

All too soon I must leave, and go back to my house.
“Goodbye” to Frontierland. “Goodbye,” Mickey Mouse.
I’ll return soon for the thrills that I crave,
But for now it’s back to the home of the Brave.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Where do you feel bravest? What scares you and how do you overcome your fears?

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Chasing Horizons: A Journey Worth Taking

Chasing Horizons A Journey Worth Taking

If we were the pilots of our own flight of life’s fulfillment and meaning, would the Universe choose who would accompany us on our journey? 

Let’s see. There would be a flight crew, a co-pilot, passengers, the occasional hijacker, terrorist, and a ground crew that would keep us safely soaring through the sky. We would round out our crew with that incompetent navigator who can’t seem to read a map  – but we love her anyway because she surprises us with never-ending detours.

With luck, our flight will be a long one, but many stops must be made along the way. As we soar through the skies of possibilities and destinations, some of those who share our journey will leave us. They will be dropped off at various airports to seek their own adventures, and we will continue on our odyssey with newcomers and our favourite remaining passengers. And, of course, there will always be those annoying hangers-on who will refuse to get off.

Those Intriguing Short-Haul Passengers

Some of those on board are short-haul passengers: making us laugh for a few moments, teaching us to cherish memorable acquaintances, and sharing their wisdom. They will remind us of the importance of appreciating different cultures and traditions during the brief time we spend together. 

Children will find mates of their own and board their own transport. Parents may cease to exist physically, and partners may decide your journey is no longer one they wish to share. Those nasty hijackers and terrorists may temporarily force us to deviate from our intended itineraries, but our trusty ground crew will set things right and have us on our way once again.

Sometimes there will be adversaries among our passengers. As the lionhearted pilot, we will equip them with parachutes and, with a quick farewell, send them on their way – perhaps with a gentle push. This will allow them to embark on their own escapades.

Long-Haul Passengers

These frequent flyers are composed of compadres, confidantes, supporters, admirers, dependents, adversaries, competitors, and tormentors. 

As we travel, we will discover that our planet is massive, its people complex, and that life outside our familiar sphere can sometimes be strange, messy, but always enlightening and wondrous. Our wanderlust will lead us to hidden gems, pursue unexpected opportunities, and take us on unscripted sojourns in stopovers we never imagined ourselves in. 

When our layover is done and it is time to board our departing flight to our next adventure, we will take with us a deeper understanding that our interpretation of how life should be lived is not the only way. Our horizons expand, and misunderstandings diminish, with open minds and a healthy pursuit of knowledge.

Unexpected Routes

Life’s flavours are found in the spices of unexpected routes. If we do not follow these diverted flight paths, we may regret the adventures that could have been. We were either in too much of a hurry or too afraid to make the stop. Those who took the chance and landed will have astonishing stories to share for a lifetime. Their quests will be magical!

Hope You Had a Pleasant Flight

Eventually, we will say goodbye to our fellow travellers, but their participation in our journey will be remembered with laughter, tears, affection, passion, battles won and lost, and exhilarating moments. Their presence in our odyssey was necessary to complete who we are.

We Packed It All and It Was Worth It!

Experience as much as we can pack into our flight: joy, grief, danger, outrageous fun and, above all, friendships. Lots and lots of new companions and intriguing encounters, creating memories to nourish our souls. We should not avoid the unknown but face happenstances head-on.

Nothing stays the same, nor should it. Assemble a freewheeling itinerary with lots of holes. Take calculated risks, enjoy the journey and take Robert Frost’s advice: take the road less travelled. 

Also read, Lost Your Compass in Mid-Life? Join the Virtual Kitchen Table.

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You are the pilot of your own flying machine, and the controls are in your hands. Where will you go today?

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Cream Contrast Short Sleeve Blazer

Lindsay Hubbard’s Cream Contrast Short Sleeve Blazer / Summer House Season 10 Episode 8 Fashion

Lindsay Hubbard caught up with the girls on what she missed on tonight’s episode of Summer House, while we thankfully get a peek into her city chic fit in a cream contrast short sleeve blazer. Contrast trim has been on our minds lately because it’s trendy and easy to throw on to look chic. And we spilled the tea on where you can snag this blazer, since it’s not only in stock but also affordable for your style.

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Amanda


Lindsay Hubbard's Cream Contrast Short Sleeve Blazer

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Madison LeCroy’s Blue Long Sleeve Silk Mini Dress

Madison LeCroy’s Blue Long Sleeve Silk Mini Dress / Southern Charm Instagram Fashion March 2026

Madison LeCroy headed to date night with her man in a lovely blue long sleeve silk mini dress. This dress is ideal for a romantic night or special occasion you want to wear a color that’s chic. And whether or not you have a date on the calendar you can slip on this stunning dress and make it part of your love story. 

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Madison LeCroy's Blue Long Sleeve Silk Mini Dress

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