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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Looking to the Red Carpet for Real-Life Style

Looking to the Red Carpet for Real-Life Style

Awards season may not seem like the most obvious place for a woman in her 60s to look for fashion inspiration. After all, much of the coverage focuses on young starlets in gowns that appear designed more for spectacle than for real life. And most of us are unlikely to find ourselves invited to anything resembling the Oscars, the Tony’s, a royal coronation, or the Met Gala.

Still, that doesn’t mean the red carpet has nothing to offer in terms of style inspiration.

While the average week might revolve around errands, dinners with friends, or travel plans, formal occasions do still appear on the calendar. A black-tie wedding, a fundraising gala, a milestone anniversary party, or a retirement celebration can call for something a little more glamorous than our usual rotation. When those moments arise, the red carpet can be surprisingly useful, not as something to emulate exactly, but as a place to gather ideas.

Fashion Inspiration Is Everywhere

I have always treated fashion this way. Inspiration is everywhere if you’re paying attention. A woman crossing a city street in a beautifully cut coat can spark just as much curiosity as a designer gown sweeping across a red carpet. I tend to watch awards season with the same mindset. I don’t have a desire to copycat any of these high-glam looks, but I do feed my fashion fever by noticing color combinations, silhouettes, and styling details that I can translate into real life.

Women Who Understand Elegant Presence

In recent years, some of the most interesting lessons have come from actresses who are well past the ingénue stage and clearly enjoying the freedom that comes with it. Kathy Bates, Jean Smart, Diane Lane, Helen Mirren, Meryl Streep, and Jamie Lee Curtis have all mastered the art of red carpet dressing that blends style with dignity and unmistakable presence.

What makes their approach so refreshing is that none of them appear to be chasing trends or competing with women half their age. Instead, they lean into elegance with a sense of playfulness. Helen Mirren might appear in shimmering metallics or rich jewel tones that highlight her silver hair.

Diane Lane often favors beautifully tailored gowns that feel timeless rather than theatrical. Jean Smart has a knack for sophisticated silhouettes that suggest quiet confidence rather than showmanship.

Jamie Lee Curtis brings a slightly edgier sensibility to the carpet, often opting for sleek, sculptural designs or sharply tailored pieces that emphasize structure and strength.

And then there is Meryl Streep, who has long understood something many women quietly appreciate: sometimes the chicest accessory in the room is simply being yourself. She has appeared on red carpets wearing her glasses, an understated gesture that signals comfort with who she is rather than adherence to some imagined Hollywood rulebook.

Glamour Without Overexposure

Collectively, these women offer a useful reminder that glamour does not require overexposure. In fact, the opposite is often true. A beautifully cut gown, a dramatic sleeve, a column of saturated color, or a perfectly tailored suit can deliver far more impact than a dress engineered around cutouts and plunging necklines. Elegance comes from proportion, fabric, and confidence.

Translating Red Carpet Style into Real Life

For women in their 60s and beyond, this is where the red carpet becomes genuinely instructive. The luxurious velvet seen on awards night might translate into a velvet jacket worn to a winter gala. A sleek tuxedo-inspired ensemble could easily become the perfect outfit for a charity dinner, or the jacket, worn with jeans and a white t-shirt, can upstyle an everyday look. Even a bold color choice like magenta, aqua, or tangerine can inspire ways to refresh favorite outfits.

Accessories offer another easy translation. Awards season jewelry is rarely subtle, but its spirit works beautifully in everyday dressing. A striking pair of earrings or a sculptural cuff can transform a simple outfit into something memorable without requiring head-to-toe reinvention.

A Little Permission to Dress Up

What the red carpet ultimately provides is not a dress code but permission. It reminds us that dressing up can still be joyful, expressive, and a little theatrical when the occasion calls for it. Watching high-profile women of a certain age step onto the carpet with poise and personality makes it clear that style does not fade with age. If anything, it becomes more interesting.

So, when awards season rolls around, I grab a glass of wine, settle in on my comfy couch, and start thinking about what details I can bring to my special occasion dressing. I notice the silhouettes that feel elegant rather than excessive, the fabrics that move beautifully, the colors that seem to glow under the lights. Those small observations eventually find their way into real life – perhaps at a wedding, a gala, or some celebratory evening that calls for a little extra sparkle.

If awards season glam reminds us of anything, it’s that inspiration for signature style and vibrant living can be found anywhere, if we choose to notice it. From a red carpet moment to a woman passing you on a city street, the ideas are there, waiting to be translated into something that feels entirely your own.

If you’d like a steady stream of that kind of inspiration, check out Spark 60, my weekly dose of style, curiosity, and lived-in wisdom. Think of it as your gentle nudge to keep evolving, keep experimenting, and keep saying yes to a life that feels just a little more brilliant.

Also read 2026 Style Reset: How to Build a Capsule Wardrobe at 60 (Without Buying Everything New).

Let’s Have a Conversation:

From where do you draw outfit inspiration? Do you watch any of the award galas? What outfits have you seen that you’ve decided to replicate?

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Looking to the Red Carpet for Real-Life Style

Looking to the Red Carpet for Real-Life Style

Awards season may not seem like the most obvious place for a woman in her 60s to look for fashion inspiration. After all, much of the coverage focuses on young starlets in gowns that appear designed more for spectacle than for real life. And most of us are unlikely to find ourselves invited to anything resembling the Oscars, the Tony’s, a royal coronation, or the Met Gala.

Still, that doesn’t mean the red carpet has nothing to offer in terms of style inspiration.

While the average week might revolve around errands, dinners with friends, or travel plans, formal occasions do still appear on the calendar. A black-tie wedding, a fundraising gala, a milestone anniversary party, or a retirement celebration can call for something a little more glamorous than our usual rotation. When those moments arise, the red carpet can be surprisingly useful, not as something to emulate exactly, but as a place to gather ideas.

Fashion Inspiration Is Everywhere

I have always treated fashion this way. Inspiration is everywhere if you’re paying attention. A woman crossing a city street in a beautifully cut coat can spark just as much curiosity as a designer gown sweeping across a red carpet. I tend to watch awards season with the same mindset. I don’t have a desire to copycat any of these high-glam looks, but I do feed my fashion fever by noticing color combinations, silhouettes, and styling details that I can translate into real life.

Women Who Understand Elegant Presence

In recent years, some of the most interesting lessons have come from actresses who are well past the ingénue stage and clearly enjoying the freedom that comes with it. Kathy Bates, Jean Smart, Diane Lane, Helen Mirren, Meryl Streep, and Jamie Lee Curtis have all mastered the art of red carpet dressing that blends style with dignity and unmistakable presence.

What makes their approach so refreshing is that none of them appear to be chasing trends or competing with women half their age. Instead, they lean into elegance with a sense of playfulness. Helen Mirren might appear in shimmering metallics or rich jewel tones that highlight her silver hair.

Diane Lane often favors beautifully tailored gowns that feel timeless rather than theatrical. Jean Smart has a knack for sophisticated silhouettes that suggest quiet confidence rather than showmanship.

Jamie Lee Curtis brings a slightly edgier sensibility to the carpet, often opting for sleek, sculptural designs or sharply tailored pieces that emphasize structure and strength.

And then there is Meryl Streep, who has long understood something many women quietly appreciate: sometimes the chicest accessory in the room is simply being yourself. She has appeared on red carpets wearing her glasses, an understated gesture that signals comfort with who she is rather than adherence to some imagined Hollywood rulebook.

Glamour Without Overexposure

Collectively, these women offer a useful reminder that glamour does not require overexposure. In fact, the opposite is often true. A beautifully cut gown, a dramatic sleeve, a column of saturated color, or a perfectly tailored suit can deliver far more impact than a dress engineered around cutouts and plunging necklines. Elegance comes from proportion, fabric, and confidence.

Translating Red Carpet Style into Real Life

For women in their 60s and beyond, this is where the red carpet becomes genuinely instructive. The luxurious velvet seen on awards night might translate into a velvet jacket worn to a winter gala. A sleek tuxedo-inspired ensemble could easily become the perfect outfit for a charity dinner, or the jacket, worn with jeans and a white t-shirt, can upstyle an everyday look. Even a bold color choice like magenta, aqua, or tangerine can inspire ways to refresh favorite outfits.

Accessories offer another easy translation. Awards season jewelry is rarely subtle, but its spirit works beautifully in everyday dressing. A striking pair of earrings or a sculptural cuff can transform a simple outfit into something memorable without requiring head-to-toe reinvention.

A Little Permission to Dress Up

What the red carpet ultimately provides is not a dress code but permission. It reminds us that dressing up can still be joyful, expressive, and a little theatrical when the occasion calls for it. Watching high-profile women of a certain age step onto the carpet with poise and personality makes it clear that style does not fade with age. If anything, it becomes more interesting.

So, when awards season rolls around, I grab a glass of wine, settle in on my comfy couch, and start thinking about what details I can bring to my special occasion dressing. I notice the silhouettes that feel elegant rather than excessive, the fabrics that move beautifully, the colors that seem to glow under the lights. Those small observations eventually find their way into real life – perhaps at a wedding, a gala, or some celebratory evening that calls for a little extra sparkle.

If awards season glam reminds us of anything, it’s that inspiration for signature style and vibrant living can be found anywhere, if we choose to notice it. From a red carpet moment to a woman passing you on a city street, the ideas are there, waiting to be translated into something that feels entirely your own.

If you’d like a steady stream of that kind of inspiration, check out Spark 60, my weekly dose of style, curiosity, and lived-in wisdom. Think of it as your gentle nudge to keep evolving, keep experimenting, and keep saying yes to a life that feels just a little more brilliant.

Also read 2026 Style Reset: How to Build a Capsule Wardrobe at 60 (Without Buying Everything New).

Let’s Have a Conversation:

From where do you draw outfit inspiration? Do you watch any of the award galas? What outfits have you seen that you’ve decided to replicate?

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Sutton Stracke’s Eye Masks / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 14 Beauty

Now I knew there was no way Sutton Stracke would be shopping Zara, though she did look great in Kyle Richards’ dress. But it’s funny to me because a few seasons back Kyle borrowed eye patches from Sutton and now last night on #RHOBH Sutton was seen borrowing something from Kyle while wearing those exact patches! A full circle moment and thankfully they are still in stock for us to snag for ourselves. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Rachel Zoe’s Mini Hair Brush / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 14 Beauty

Since the name of our website is Big Blonde Hair, it only makes sense that we share the details of Rachel Zoe’s mini hair brush on last night’s episode of #RHOBH. Her hair always looks so beautiful and is one of my favorite accessories of hers. So if keeping a brush in a bag is her secret to keeping hair sleek and shiny- then we should all go shop this mini must-have.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Kathy Hilton’s Blue Floral Mini Dress / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 14 Fashion

Kathy Hilton looked classy and cute in a blue floral mini dress for dinner by the pool in Italy on last night’s episode of #RHOBH. She has a style that can takes your wardrobe to a better place. So instead of walking away from this stylish look, scroll down to the Style Stealers and snag a chic new mini moment.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Erika Girardi’s Leopard Shirt and Pants

Erika Girardi’s Leopard Shirt and Pants / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 14 Fashion

Erika Girardi puts on a statement set for their girls’ day in Italy on tonight’s episode of #RHOBH. It’s a leopard shirt with pretty pants that’s bold and easy to wear all day and night. So whether you’re strutting the streets of Italy like you’re on a runway or just going out to dinner, you won’t skip a beat by stealing her wild style.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Rachel Zoe’s White Asymmetric Feather Dress

Rachel Zoe’s White Asymmetric Feather Dress / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 14 Fashion

Ah another FABULOUS look from Rachel Zoe tonight on #RHOBH. It’s still her classic flow-y dress style, but this time there’s some feather action that you know I’m obsessed with. And you also know Rachel only wears pieces that stand the test of time (which this one totally does) so I’m sure there’s a higher Taller chance you’ll be shopping something similar from below. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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