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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Skip the Crowds: Italy’s Best Crowd-Free Experiences

Skip the Crowds Italy’s Best Crowd-Free Experiences

With overtourism increasingly becoming an issue worldwide, it’s becoming more important than ever to turn to smarter alternatives. In the European cities of Barcelona and Venice, overtourism is threatening to overwhelm local life and heritage sites, and while cruise tourism has contributed, budget airlines, social media and short-term rentals all play their part.

Restrictions are slowly being put in place as a counterbalance. In the US, there are entry fees to National Parks and some special attractions, while in Italy, fees have been introduced at hotspots such as Rome’s Trevi Fountain and Pantheon, and Juliet’s House in Verona. In Venice, a day visitor access fee is applied on selected dates and on the Amalfi Coast, the Cinque Terre National Park Card is required for access to some trails, with prices rising on peak days.

While you may not be deterred by the fees, you won’t be alone in being put off by the crowds. Shoulder season travel is one option. But my advice when it comes to avoiding the crowds in Italy is to skip the high-profile attractions and instead seek out attractions and locations that take you deep into Italian culture.

Art and Architecture

Few cities in the world are as densely packed with art treasures as Florence, making it irresistible if you can visit during the shoulder season months or, preferably, winter. An excellent alternative for art enthusiasts is Ravenna on the Adriatic Coast, once the capital of the Western Roman Empire and later the heart of the Byzantine Empire. The city is best known for its UNESCO World Heritage basilicas, filled with extraordinarily intricate mosaics, as well as being home to the tomb of Dante Alighieri.

Magnificent mosaics in Ravenna. Photo credit: Hedonistic Hiking

When it comes to architecture, Venice is admittedly in a league of its own, as much for its big hitting sights like the Doge’s Palace and St Mark’s Basilica as for its hidden squares, pretty bridges, and mesmerising palaces along the Grand Canal. But the downside is the tourist crowds. By contrast, the quiet towns of Mantua and Vicenza are not only crammed with Renaissance masterpieces but are also living breathing towns where local life is in full swing.

Walking in Italy’s National Parks

The trail that links the five villages of the UNESCO Cinque Terre on the Italian Riviera is as pretty as a picture: think terraced vineyards, clusters of pastel-coloured houses and dramatic coastal scenery. But in the summer months, the busiest trails are jam-packed. For spectacular views without the crowds, travel a little further south to the Cilento National Park where the best sea view hikes provide views of old watchtowers, hidden inlets and stunning bays with turquoise water. Follow coastal trails past sea caves and limestone cliffs, pausing for dips in empty beaches only accessible on foot or by boat.

Walking in the Abruzzo with Hedonistic Hiking.

Alternatively, join a group to hike in the remote Abruzzo, a region which comprises three of Italy’s most spectacular national parks, making it one of Europe’s greenest areas.

Vineyard Visits and Wine Tasting

Many of us automatically associate a wine tasting holiday in Italy with Tuscany, not least because Tuscany’s iconic wines, such as Chianti and Brunello di Montalcino, are widely exported. If you’ve already experienced Tuscan vineyards and want to explore Italian wines that are less readily available elsewhere, choose a less obvious region of Italy such as Friuli Venezia Giulia where numerous small local wineries are tucked away in the quiet hills bordering Slovenia.

Wine-tasting in Friuli, Hedonistic Hiking

Enjoy slow travel at its best at informal tastings, with wine paired with local produce such as ‘prosciutto di San Daniele’, in the cellars of small family producers.

Where to Find the Best Food in Italy

However long you spend in Italy, I defy you to find an answer to this: the truth is you can find superb food wherever you are in Italy, and every Italian will claim that the food in their region is superior!

You can, however, improve your chances of finding superb food with a couple of small measures. The first and most obvious solution is to side-step the tourism-saturated hotspots in the historic centres of any big city, avoiding menus in multiple languages.

Experience the superb gastronomy of Emilia Romagna. Photo credit: Hedonistic Hiking.

At coastal resorts, head away from the beach strip and ‘restaurants with a view’ and seek out simple trattoria showing shorter menus with regional specialities. Lastly, holiday in regions such as Piedmont or Emilia Romagna where you’ll find a strong focus on local food culture.

Exploring Italy’s Ancient History

Discovering Italy’s ancient past isn’t just a case of visiting Pompeii and Herculaneum. Certainly, those sites are extraordinary, but for a more crowd-free experience, consider swapping Pompeii for Paestum or travelling even further back in time and exploring the ancient Etruscan sites in and around Orvieto. The gorgeous hilltop town has an extraordinary subterranean world, a vast underground network of Etruscan-era caves, wells and tunnels. Of course, the town still attracts tourists but stay a night or two and you’ll find yourself amongst locals.

Seaside Stays

With a total coastline of over 4,500 miles, Italy has plenty of seaside towns to choose from. The Amalfi Coast towns – Amalfi, Sorrento and Positano – are amongst the best known internationally but were certainly not designed for summer crowds. Likewise, Liguria’s pocket-size coastal town of Portofino.

Biodola Beach, Elba. Photo credit: Hedonistic Hiking.

Swap Amalfi and Portofino for Lerici on the Italian Riviera, for the island of Elba or the laidback relaxed atmosphere of Santa Maria della Castellabate in the Cilento region.

Let’s Chat:

Do you actively seek out quieter, less popular destinations? How do you choose where to go? Can you recommend anywhere off-the-beaten track in Italy?

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Skip the Crowds: Italy’s Best Crowd-Free Experiences

Skip the Crowds Italy’s Best Crowd-Free Experiences

With overtourism increasingly becoming an issue worldwide, it’s becoming more important than ever to turn to smarter alternatives. In the European cities of Barcelona and Venice, overtourism is threatening to overwhelm local life and heritage sites, and while cruise tourism has contributed, budget airlines, social media and short-term rentals all play their part.

Restrictions are slowly being put in place as a counterbalance. In the US, there are entry fees to National Parks and some special attractions, while in Italy, fees have been introduced at hotspots such as Rome’s Trevi Fountain and Pantheon, and Juliet’s House in Verona. In Venice, a day visitor access fee is applied on selected dates and on the Amalfi Coast, the Cinque Terre National Park Card is required for access to some trails, with prices rising on peak days.

While you may not be deterred by the fees, you won’t be alone in being put off by the crowds. Shoulder season travel is one option. But my advice when it comes to avoiding the crowds in Italy is to skip the high-profile attractions and instead seek out attractions and locations that take you deep into Italian culture.

Art and Architecture

Few cities in the world are as densely packed with art treasures as Florence, making it irresistible if you can visit during the shoulder season months or, preferably, winter. An excellent alternative for art enthusiasts is Ravenna on the Adriatic Coast, once the capital of the Western Roman Empire and later the heart of the Byzantine Empire. The city is best known for its UNESCO World Heritage basilicas, filled with extraordinarily intricate mosaics, as well as being home to the tomb of Dante Alighieri.

Magnificent mosaics in Ravenna. Photo credit: Hedonistic Hiking

When it comes to architecture, Venice is admittedly in a league of its own, as much for its big hitting sights like the Doge’s Palace and St Mark’s Basilica as for its hidden squares, pretty bridges, and mesmerising palaces along the Grand Canal. But the downside is the tourist crowds. By contrast, the quiet towns of Mantua and Vicenza are not only crammed with Renaissance masterpieces but are also living breathing towns where local life is in full swing.

Walking in Italy’s National Parks

The trail that links the five villages of the UNESCO Cinque Terre on the Italian Riviera is as pretty as a picture: think terraced vineyards, clusters of pastel-coloured houses and dramatic coastal scenery. But in the summer months, the busiest trails are jam-packed. For spectacular views without the crowds, travel a little further south to the Cilento National Park where the best sea view hikes provide views of old watchtowers, hidden inlets and stunning bays with turquoise water. Follow coastal trails past sea caves and limestone cliffs, pausing for dips in empty beaches only accessible on foot or by boat.

Walking in the Abruzzo with Hedonistic Hiking.

Alternatively, join a group to hike in the remote Abruzzo, a region which comprises three of Italy’s most spectacular national parks, making it one of Europe’s greenest areas.

Vineyard Visits and Wine Tasting

Many of us automatically associate a wine tasting holiday in Italy with Tuscany, not least because Tuscany’s iconic wines, such as Chianti and Brunello di Montalcino, are widely exported. If you’ve already experienced Tuscan vineyards and want to explore Italian wines that are less readily available elsewhere, choose a less obvious region of Italy such as Friuli Venezia Giulia where numerous small local wineries are tucked away in the quiet hills bordering Slovenia.

Wine-tasting in Friuli, Hedonistic Hiking

Enjoy slow travel at its best at informal tastings, with wine paired with local produce such as ‘prosciutto di San Daniele’, in the cellars of small family producers.

Where to Find the Best Food in Italy

However long you spend in Italy, I defy you to find an answer to this: the truth is you can find superb food wherever you are in Italy, and every Italian will claim that the food in their region is superior!

You can, however, improve your chances of finding superb food with a couple of small measures. The first and most obvious solution is to side-step the tourism-saturated hotspots in the historic centres of any big city, avoiding menus in multiple languages.

Experience the superb gastronomy of Emilia Romagna. Photo credit: Hedonistic Hiking.

At coastal resorts, head away from the beach strip and ‘restaurants with a view’ and seek out simple trattoria showing shorter menus with regional specialities. Lastly, holiday in regions such as Piedmont or Emilia Romagna where you’ll find a strong focus on local food culture.

Exploring Italy’s Ancient History

Discovering Italy’s ancient past isn’t just a case of visiting Pompeii and Herculaneum. Certainly, those sites are extraordinary, but for a more crowd-free experience, consider swapping Pompeii for Paestum or travelling even further back in time and exploring the ancient Etruscan sites in and around Orvieto. The gorgeous hilltop town has an extraordinary subterranean world, a vast underground network of Etruscan-era caves, wells and tunnels. Of course, the town still attracts tourists but stay a night or two and you’ll find yourself amongst locals.

Seaside Stays

With a total coastline of over 4,500 miles, Italy has plenty of seaside towns to choose from. The Amalfi Coast towns – Amalfi, Sorrento and Positano – are amongst the best known internationally but were certainly not designed for summer crowds. Likewise, Liguria’s pocket-size coastal town of Portofino.

Biodola Beach, Elba. Photo credit: Hedonistic Hiking.

Swap Amalfi and Portofino for Lerici on the Italian Riviera, for the island of Elba or the laidback relaxed atmosphere of Santa Maria della Castellabate in the Cilento region.

Let’s Chat:

Do you actively seek out quieter, less popular destinations? How do you choose where to go? Can you recommend anywhere off-the-beaten track in Italy?

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Liz McGraw’s White One Shoulder Jumpsuit and Oversized Sunglasses

Liz McGraw’s White One Shoulder Jumpsuit and Oversized Sunglasses / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 5 Fashion

I thought Liz McGraw looked SO chic on the boat on last night’s Real Housewives of Rhode Island in her white one shoulder jumpsuit and oversized sunglasses. It was a great look on her! And though her jumpsuit is sold out at stores, you can shop it once worn. Ensuring that you won’t go overboard on spending.

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Alicia Carmody’s White Floral Ruffle Dress

Alicia Carmody’s White Floral Ruffle Dress / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 5 Fashion

While Alicia Carmody felt like the Little Mermaid stepping onto the boat on last night’s #RHORI, we’re pretty glad she resides mostly on land. Because then we get to see her adorable dress collection, which includes pieces like this white floral ruffle dress. Which you’re welcome to shop down under the sea.

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What Does Love Even Look Like in Your 60s?

What Does Love Even Look Like in Your 60s

If you have been married for a long time and are now divorced or widowed, or even if you have never married at all, chances are your ideas about love are outdated. I don’t mean that as a criticism. I mean it as a relief.

When I found myself single in my 60s after more than 30 years of marriage, I had one simple thought. I didn’t necessarily want to be alone. I would like some companionship. I would just see what happened. And then I started to notice something. I wasn’t even sure I wanted a long-term relationship at all. Not because I was closed, but because for the first time in my life I wasn’t sure the old destination was still the right one.

If any of that sounds familiar, these questions are for you too.

Do You Even Want a Relationship?

This sounds like a simple question. It is not. After years of building a life around someone else’s rhythms, of compromise and caregiving and the thousand small adjustments that come with sharing your life, you may find yourself with something you haven’t had in a long time. Your own mornings. Your own space. Your own way of moving through a day. And you might be surprised to find that you like it.

That doesn’t mean there are no lonely days. There are. But there is a difference between loneliness and solitude, and many women at this stage are discovering what it feels like to wake up excited about the day simply because it belongs entirely to them.

So, before you start looking, it is worth asking honestly: Do you want a partner, or do you want the idea of one? There is no wrong answer. But there is an honest one, and it is worth finding before you begin.

What Does a Relationship Even Look Like at This Stage?

When you were young the path was visible. You dated, you got serious, you moved in or got married, you built a life together. But in your 60s that script doesn’t apply anymore, and nobody has handed you a new one.

Do you date casually and see what unfolds? Do you keep your own homes, your own independence? Do you introduce this person to your children or keep those worlds separate? Do you even want to merge your life with someone else’s after finally learning how to live on your own terms? The questions you are asking now are completely different from the ones you asked in your late 20s. That is not a problem. That is growth.

What About When Someone Gets Sick?

This is the question most of us don’t say out loud. After years of caregiving, of showing up for people you loved through exhausting seasons, it is worth asking yourself honestly whether you want to do that again. If you fall in love with someone and they get sick, do you want to be the one to take care of them? You are allowed to sit with that question. But you deserve to know what you are actually signing up for, and to choose it with your eyes open rather than find yourself there by default.

Is It Even Worth the Risk?

Here is the math many of us are doing quietly. On one side, the risk of heartache. Of opening yourself up again, of letting someone in, of building something tender and real and then losing it. At this age you know exactly how much that costs. On the other side sits the possibility of being alone for the rest of your life. That word lands differently in your 60s than it did in your late 20s.

There is no right answer to that calculation. Some mornings the freedom feels like everything. Some evenings the quiet feels like too much. What matters is that you ask the question honestly and simply hold it. Because how you answer it, on your best days and your hardest ones, will tell you something true about what you actually want next.

What Do You Actually Want Now?

Not what you wanted in your late 20s. Not what you think you should want. Not the relationship that would make sense to other people. What do you want now, from exactly who you are today?

Maybe companionship sounds lovely. Someone to share a meal with, to call when something funny happens, to sit with in comfortable quiet. Maybe the idea of letting someone in again feels like too much right now. Maybe both of those things are true at the same time. That is allowed. You don’t have to have it figured out before you begin.

Maybe that is enough for now. To stay open. To see what happens. Maybe that is what love looks like in your 60s. Not a search exactly. More like a quiet willingness to be surprised.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What does your current self look for in a relationship? Do you prefer to be on your own, or do you really want company? What do you love and what do you hate in your current situation, whatever it may be?

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Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s White and Blue Striped Shirt Dress

Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s White and Blue Striped Shirt Dress / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 5 Fashion

On last night’s Real Housewives of Rhode Island Jo-Ellen Tiberi met with Rulla Nehme Pontarelli to discuss those pesky cheating rumors. And while Jo-Ellen brought receipts, the only thing I can comment on is her blue and white striped shirt dress. A perfect work to cocktails look. So you’d better scoop it up before it’s gone because we wouldn’t want things to get beyond fatal attraction when someone else claims it….

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Brown Lace Midi Dress

Lindsay Hubbard’s Brown Lace Midi Dress / Summer House Instagram Fashion April 2026

Lindsay Hubbard turned heads at the LA Fashion Show Awards in a brown lace midi dress. She looks like a total bombshell straight off the runway, and you can too by adding a new dress below and looking beautiful in brown like Lindsay.

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