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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Madison LeCroy’s Barrel Leg Jeans

Madison LeCroy’s Barrel Leg Jeans / Southern Charm Instagram Fashion May 2026

Clearly good grades run in Madison LeCroy’s family because her son Hudson made honor roll, and her style is obviously A+. Because she made a casual white shirt and barrel leg jeans look sooo chic. And thankfully we tracked down those jeans to shop which is really school.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Madison LeCroy’s Barrel Leg Jeans

Madison LeCroy’s Barrel Leg Jeans / Southern Charm Instagram Fashion May 2026

Clearly good grades run in Madison LeCroy’s family because her son Hudson made honor roll, and her style is obviously A+. Because she made a casual white shirt and barrel leg jeans look sooo chic. And thankfully we tracked down those jeans to shop which is really school.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Kyle Richards Grey Sweatsuit / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Instagram Fashion May 2026

Kyle Richards’ daughter, Sophia Umansky, posted a funny reel yesterday of her “pushing” a grocery cart in a grey sweatsuit. When it comes to running errands, a matching set like this is perfect to throw on without a hassle. So if you want to look cool in the checkout line, add a sweatsuit below straight to your shopping cart with ease below.

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Mia Calabrese’s Silver Metallic Top and Skirt

Mia Calabrese’s Silver Metallic Top and Skirt / Summer House Instagram Fashion May 2025

Mia Calabrese posted a cute photo dump of her weekend recap on Instagram with a silver metallic top and skirt in the first photo. This set ensures you stand out and comes in a lot of chic colors, so you can pick your favorite and look stylish like Mia for your next major moment.

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Planning to Visit Australia? Here’s a Three-Week Itinerary that You Will Enjoy

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I’m often asked, “Where should I to go?” or “What should I see and do?” when people are planning a visit to Australia. For me, it’s difficult to answer as there really is so much to see and do.

Australia is a big country – in fact, it’s the 6th biggest country in the world! It’s larger than the land area of the 48 joined states of America.

So how do you get the best value for money for your travel experience?

With that in mind, we’ve mapped out a simple 3-week itinerary visiting several much-loved destinations and some others along the way that we think you will love.

Your Itinerary

Your itinerary will take you on a journey to some of the most iconic attractions in Australia. It will bring you to some rare and ancient landscapes and seascapes, and it will give you many opportunities to explore one of the oldest cultures on earth.

Everything in this itinerary is flexible, so you can extend a segment that captures your interest, or stretch your stay if you find extra time is available.

Cherry-pick your adventure options with our linked travel-guides so you can explore it all.

Let’s get started with your Australian adventure.

First stop: Sydney – 4 days

Sydney is a great place to begin your Australian holiday experience with many world-famous attractions to kick-start your adventure.

Marvel over the architecture of the Sydney Opera House, explore the convict heritage of the Rocks, climb the Sydney Harbour Bridge, swim at Bondi Beach or go up into the magical Blue Mountains by train.

Fly to Alice Springs: 2.5-hour flight from Sydney – 3+ days

Alice Springs is one of those amazing places that is filled with culture and its own outback charm. There is plenty to see and do in Alice. Hire a car for a few days, and check out a few of my favourites.

Visit the award-winning Alice Springs Desert Park and the Kangaroo Sanctuary to see some of our unique Australian animals. Check out the School of the Air where radio conducts outback classrooms or take a trip out into the MacDonnell Ranges to see Standley Chasm and Simpsons’ Gap.

Fly to Uluru: 1-hour flight from Alice Springs – 2 nights

Once known as Ayres Rock, Uluru has been at the centre of Aboriginal culture for thousands of years.

Watching Uluru change colours at sunrise or sunset is one of outback Australia’s greatest experiences. Enjoy the walks, the cultural experience and the magical sunsets at Uluru Kata Tjuta National Park.

Fly to Darwin: 2.5-hour flight – 4+ days

The Top End itinerary will take in Darwin and the world-famous Litchfield and Kakadu National Parks. Visit the Mindil Beach Markets and enjoy a tropical sunset. Visit the Royal Flying Doctors Service and learn about the bombing of Darwin, then take a tour out to Litchfield National Park.

Drive to Kakadu: 3-hour drive – 2 nights

View the world from atop of Ubirr Rock. Photograph the spectacular sunsets in a crocodile infested billabong, be amazed at the ancient rock art, learn about the pristine countryside and the 6 seasons of this ancient land.

Fly Darwin to Cairns – 2.5-hour flight – 5+ days

Tropical Far North Queensland is the gateway to the Great Barrier Reef and the ancient Daintree rainforest.

You will experience clear rainforest waterways, pristine ancient rainforest and protected ecosystems, unique plants and bird life native only to this region. Take a day trip to the Great Barrier Reef to snorkel amongst beautiful corals and brightly coloured fish.

Return to Sydney – 4-hour flight

We’ve included favourite travel destinations such as the Sydney Harbour Bridge, the Opera House, Uluru and the Great Barrier Reef, and tossed in a few of the unexpected ones, such as a Mindil Beach sunset, Litchfield National Park and the Daintree Rainforest.

This is “How to see the best of Australia” when time is of the essence.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you planning a trip to Australia? Will you travel-test our 3-week itinerary? If you have already visited Australia, how much were you able to see on your visit? Please share your experience!

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Paige DeSorbo’s Blue Lace Panel Pants

Paige DeSorbo’s Blue Lace Panel Pants / Summer House Instagram Fashion May 2026

It’s always a good day when Paige DeSorbo posts an OOTD pic. And today she posted in a black tank top and a pair of lovely blue lace panel pants. These stylish pants work for everything from dinner plans to a chic daytime look. So if relaxed is your vibe, pair these pants with a basic top and look polished all day.

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To Tattoo or Not to Tattoo in My Sixties?

To Tattoo or Not Tattoo How Old Is Too Old

I never imagined I’d be thinking about getting a tattoo in my 60s. Honestly, I used to look at heavily tattooed women my age and wonder, “Do they regret those now? How old were they when they started? Did it hurt? How long did each one take? Does color cost more? How many appointments did they have for all those tattoos?”

And now, somehow, I’m the one with a tattoo appointment this weekend. People who know me can’t believe it!

It’s got to hurt – and at this age, I complain when my heating pad is too hot!

It’s just going to be a small one on my wrist. Unless I chicken out.

People keep warning me that tattoos are addictive. Honestly, I can barely commit to a lipstick color, so this seems unlikely.

I know it’s kind of silly to spend so much time wondering about tattoos. My husband says this is exactly why I can’t sleep at night – because my brain treats every random thought like a graduate research project.

My appointment for my little tattoo is coming up. Shall I tattoo or not? Am I too old? It’s not like a tattoo has been on my ultimate bucket list!

I’m Not the Only One Wondering

I asked Google if I’m too old, in my 60s, to get my first tattoo. I was surprised to see how many people have asked the same question. There are lots of articles about this topic.

Of course, this led me down the rabbit hole!

Apparently, there is no age limit for getting a tattoo. As long as you are legally an adult, you can get inked at any stage of life.

But there are a few special considerations.

Special Considerations for Older Skin

Before getting tattooed later in life, there are a few extra things worth considering.

Mature skin is thinner and more delicate, so it’s important to choose an experienced tattoo artist who understands how aging skin heals. Placement matters too – areas with thicker skin often heal better than ankles or lower legs.

And if you take blood thinners, have diabetes, or other health conditions, it’s smart to check with your doctor first.

Also, if you’re anything like me, you may want to ask about numbing cream ahead of time because… pain.

Reasons to Get a Tattoo

I only had a desire to get a tattoo once before in my life. One of my special anniversaries was coming up, and I thought it would be cool to get a tattoo to commemorate the date. I was going to get two bunny rabbits with a heart and ribbon that said “Honey Bunnies.” Silly, I know.

But after some discussions with a tattoo artist, I decided it would hurt too much. Have I mentioned that I am a big ole sissy when it comes to pain?

That was about 20 years ago! I didn’t go through with it! And never gave it anymore thought.

And Here I Am in My 60s Thinking About Getting a Tattoo

Do you think I’ve lost my mind? Is this part of mindful aging practices?

The reason I started thinking about a tattoo again is because my sister died recently.

I saw a small tattoo design with a heart connected to an infinity symbol, and something about it touched me immediately. I imagined it on my wrist as a quiet remembrance of her.

Same concept, different versions. Credit: Susan Ballinger

But then the questions started again.

Do I really need a tattoo to remember my sister? We shared 63 years of memories together. Isn’t that enough?

Or maybe this isn’t really about remembering. Maybe it’s about honoring love.

People do get tattoos to commemorate special times, dates, and people. I’m not the first person to consider this.

My son has tattoos all over his arms and legs that represent his family – his wife, daughter, and son. I love this sentimental idea, and it makes me proud.

But Will He Have Regrets When He Is in His 60s?

Both of my granddaughters have tattoos that represent the love they had for my parents (their great-grandparents). They are beautiful tattoos with sentimental value. Again, it makes me proud that they wanted to do this.

But Both Girls Are Young Adults, Will They Be Sorry When They Are in Their 60s?

My husband and I have no tattoos. Our parents cringed at the idea of our children and grandchildren getting tattoos over the years. It was both a family and a generational thing.

What if the tattoo artist messes up? Oh dear – another question.

Are Tattoos Taboo in Society Today

Tattoos aren’t nearly as taboo as they once were. More than a third of American adults now have at least one tattoo, and they’ve become a common form of self-expression.

Still, perspectives vary depending on family background, culture, religion, and generation. In my family, tattoos were definitely not encouraged. My parents would have been horrified.

Ultimately, tattoos are largely a matter of personal preference. While the societal stigma has faded significantly, it is always good practice to give it serious thought over a period of time before you sit in that chair.

Final Thoughts

After all my research, overthinking, and late-night Googling, I still haven’t decided whether I’ll go through with my tattoo appointment.

But I do know this – getting older doesn’t mean we stop being curious, sentimental, emotional, impulsive, or even brave.

Maybe that’s the real story here.

So, tell me honestly – would you get your first tattoo in your 60s?

Let’s Have a Discussion:

Do you have tattoos? How old were you when you got them? Have you had regrets as you got older? Drop me a note in the comment section below about your thoughts. I’d love to hear from you about this topic!

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